There they are.
Dim lights, scary silence, messed up room and them?
Sitting in the corner. Thinking about their decision again.
Because once again their friend’s attitude towards them left them heartbroken.
Just because they thought beyond their regular attitude?
Just because this time they thought of being the real version of themselves? The other, better, refreshed version who thinks about them this time. Instead of making others happy no matter if they deserve the joy or not, this time they thought living for them only.
At least whatever step they will take from now on good or bad, they will be the sole bearer of their actions.
They will be the only one who celebrates their success with bottoms up.
They will be the only one who scolds themselves for the silly mistakes.
Yes they are changed. The person you used to know is changed now. They are still your old friend, your old loving caring friend. But that old friend is now the better version of themselves. The friend still loves you. The friend still cares for you. The friend still thinks of you.
OK answer one question.
Is it bad to think about our self? Is it bad to love our self? Is it bad to think ahead of the habit to make others happy and forget about our self?
Then why are you afraid?
Your friend just chose to ride a new path which will lead them to explore the real person who lives inside.
Believe me, this change is the one hell of a good change. And now it’s your duty to be with them.
Stay with them until the end and celebrate the change because that’s what friends are supposed to do no!