The Letter…….

Dear Future Partner

I don’t know if you are reading this or not, but for the next few minutes, each and every word here is dedicated to you,  for you by a small piece of you.

I hope you are doing great in your life. Everyday i think of you. I admit your existence. And want to embrace your presence and i know so do you. But still we are unable to do so.

Don’t worry, we will be together soon. You’ve waited for so long, please wait for some more time. There were times when i almost lost hope. There were times when my faith got devastated. There were times when i was lonely with no one by my side. But then it’s today when I’m writing this letter to you.
I’m writing this letter to you to tell you that yes there’s someone out there waiting eagerly for you. I don’t know if you are a complete stranger or someone in my friend list. But there’s one thing i’m sure about is that we will meet soon.
By the time i come across you, i request you to hold on.

Wait for me.

Because I’m doing the same.

Exclusively Yours

Afraid of change?

There they are.

Dim lights, scary silence, messed up room and them?

Sitting in the corner. Thinking about their decision again.

Because once again their friend’s attitude towards them left them heartbroken.

But why?

Just because they thought beyond their regular attitude?

Just because this time they thought of being the real version of themselves? The other, better, refreshed version who thinks about them this time. Instead of making others happy no matter if they deserve the joy or not, this time they thought living for them only.

At least whatever step they will take from now on good or bad, they will be the sole bearer of their actions.

They will be the only one who celebrates their success with bottoms up.

They will be the only one who scolds themselves for the silly mistakes.

Yes they are changed. The person you used to know is changed now. They are still your old friend, your old loving caring friend. But that old friend is now the better version of themselves. The friend still loves you. The friend still cares for you. The friend still thinks of you.

OK answer one question.

Is it bad to think about our self? Is it bad to love our self? Is it bad to think ahead of the habit to make others happy and forget about our self?

No?

Then why are you afraid?

Your friend just chose to ride a new path which will lead them to explore the real person who lives inside.

Believe me, this change is the one hell of a good change. And now it’s your duty to be with them.

Stay with them until the end and celebrate the change because that’s what friends are supposed to do no!

Make a step

“You are in a garden full of roses waiting for someone. And then the person of your admiration arrives. You are about express your love for the other person and SUDDENLY! You wake up.” A perfect dream sequence. Isn’t it?

But come on guys. That’s just a dream. Wake up, see the reality, embrace your presence and start with what you left incomplete earlier.

Wake up and do whatever it takes to win the heart of your loved one. They are special for you. Aren’t they? Then make them feel that. If you will never express your feelings then how they are supposed to know that?

What are you afraid of?

Do you have a fear for rejection?

But just sitting ideal on your couch struck to your phone screen and wondering that a miracle will happen, will only make things worse. You are just feeding your fear.

Make a move.

Because all you need, is a little push.

Make your mind.

Explain your situation to the heart and step out.

Because this one step, is all you need.

Because this one step, is the path to your miracle.

Because this one step, is your first step to your new life.

 

Are You Doing It Right?

It’s been like several months since I started this blog. Wrote fictional posts and shared with you guys. But this time, I want to share some personal thoughts.
Since we are from the social media generation, we all came across posts talking about sour and broken relationships or similar. Usually they always seems to be tacky and way far from the reality scenarios.
But believe me, they are actually real. Yes! These kinds of shits, actually happen.
I’m not going to reveal my case or complain that life is so unfair. But actually drive your thoughts to the other face of the case.
Did you ever thought how all this started? No I’m not talking about the first meeting and all stuff. I am asking how you got into this.

Well these situation starts with a bunch of misunderstandings like “She’s talking to me nicely. Maybe she’s interested in me.” or “He’s nice, handsome, good looking. Maybe he can be my soul mate.” Well, all such things are actually nothing less than hoax. Dude, you guys started with a friendly approach and she’s just maintaining it and girls, what is inside that good looking handsome body is what really matters. So typically we carry on with the flow of misunderstandings and then arrives a BOOM. That’s where the flow ends leaving a long lasting influence. The person of your admiration leaves you in the middle of nowhere and you, standing there; absolutely clueless, just curse your luck.

The question is, is it a result of your fortune? Or is there something else?

You know what, there is so much wrong in these scenarios. One above the all is, taking the other person for granted.
Guys, it takes a hell lot of time and patience to win a heart. You will walk towards, you will fall. But those who rise again and try again are the real winners.

Second thing, are you their priority? If not, then nothing can work.
Third, do you understand each other? No matter if you are an aspiring artist or budding economist, you need to deal with this chemistry with mush precision. One wrong equation and you are exploded.

 

Fourth and most important, be the real you. Because by the end of day that’s what actually matters. You don’t need to show your temporary face. If you are good by heart, they will love you. The love and affection by that time will be much greater by the margin you expected.
So, take your time, learn by your previous mistakes and “Jaa Simran Jaa. Jee le apni zindagi.”

Planning For An Attempt ? Better Read This First.

“Result – Failed, Life – Passed”
“Betrayed lover hugs death”
“Harassment Victim complaints to death god”
“Depressed employee joins the suicide squad.”

DEATH : A five letter word. Hotter than the Sun’s core, colder than the Pluto’s surface. Generally occurs in two ways : Naturally and Intentionally. But comprises of only one meaning : END OF LIFE.

We all know what death is. Then why I’m describing it ? Why I’m defining it ? Because some of our friends are misconcepting it. And that misconception is SUICIDE.
Everyday there’s a trending article on Facebook or Twitter with #tag BlahBlahSuicide. And that’s what the above headlines are about. Well sucide is not an easy step to follow. Also it’s not a heroic attempt.

The victim must be so depressed, so killed by the life, so insulted by their own guilt and many so scenarios in their mind while they were trying to make the move. Seriously is it a solution ? How do they figured it out that the life beyond that full stop is full of joy, a life with no sorrows ? Is there and answer to these questions ?
Absolutely no. There are no answers to these questions.

But did they know that they were being selfish ?
Selfish ? Seriously ? In which way ?
You may think I’m cracking a joke on such a serious topic. Believe me. I’m not. The very moment when the idea of applying a full stop in front if their journey came into their mind, they started being selfish. The moment when they picked up that phosphorus tablet, the moment when they tighten the rope on the neck, the moment when they slid the table below their feets they were being selfish. They didn’t thought of their loved ones. They didn’t had any idea what will the brother’s, father’s, mother’s, sister’s condition when they will see them hanging, releasing that white froth out of the mouth. What will be their condition when they will light the corpse ? Corpse not only of their loved one’s. Corpse of their ambitions. Corpse of their dreams. It all will be dead in a moment. And they think the step they are taking will be in the favor if their family.

Suicide is not a solution. There’s no problem in the world larger than life. The culprit who is yet to be arrested will not be awarded a heavy imprisonment by ending up one’s own life. 1 year, 2 years, 3 years or 10 years, they will be out once the confinement is over. To the core, it will be the victim who washed up their life thinking about the society. The society who is always unaware of you. They don’t know what you ate in the lunch or what are your dinner plans. And they care about that society ? They will forget what happened to you. They will be normal as regular in the very next moment. The family is the only one who is concerned about you and in the end it will be the family which will no longer be normal as ever.

Planning for an attempt ?
Go for it.
Plan your empowerment.
Plan your wit.
Plan to let down your sorrow, your pain.
Plan to become a better person than before.
Because suicide is not an option. It’s a full stop.

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Superiority Complex

“Muneevar, Where the hell are you dumb idiot ?”
“Coming Madamji”
“I’m calling you from last 20 minutes. Where were you ?”
“Madamji I was…”
” Stop making excuses. Go and see if the clothes are back from laundry or not.”

It may look like a normal conversation between a proprietor and her servent but believe me it’s not. In humanitarian point of view, it’s not a normal conversation. Actually it’s not a conversation. It’s humiliation. Any act which harms someone either physically or verbally is humiliation.

Wait !

Isn’t it how some of us treat our servant ? And why only servant ? The sweeper, the garbage collector,the peon and many more like them. No matter how they feel, they do their work even though they are illtreated by some members of the literate, educated society.
But why ? Why do they do this ?
Because they think they are superior. Superior in every way, money, property, social status, lifestyle. But what’s the benefit of such superiority which awards you right of insulting someone.
Many people call it superiority. I call it superiority complex, like inferiority complex. Unlike Inferiority Complex which is a state of mental illness, It is mentality. Mentality which let you think that you can squeeze anyone inferior to you under your thumb. Money, social status gives you power, not the right.
Remember, they are in this state by their fate. Not by their choice.

So ask yourself. Are you suffering from The Superiority Complex?

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The Silent Scream

No text since last december. No call since last november. Didn’t met since last july. But you still remember them even when you didn’t have a minute glance of theirs from a long time.
Why so ?
Why do they still acquire a noticeable amount of space of your mind palace and especially your heart ? Why do you care for them when you know that they don’t give attention to your existence ?
Answer. It’s pretty simple. It’s your bond. Even if it is one sided. Everyday your heart steps out of your chest and walks to their doorstep waiting for the moment when the door opens. With a hope. You know when the door opens you have to face that harsh look. But all you want to do is to hug them hard like you are never gonna let them go.
The real question arises here is that is there any possibility ? The person who keep on ignoring the texts, calls, is still interested in meeting you ?
No. You’re dead my friend. For them you were never there. They don’t care whatever your condition is. No matter how good friends you both were earlier. Now there stands a silence and a scream. Whatever high decibel the scream reaches. It will be overrided by the other one’s silence.
And the irony is, you do know this. You know there’s no more scope of bonding up again. Your mind knows the truth but heart always denies this. You still wait for the day when they will come back, apologize for this rejection. But it’s never going to happen. They moved on. Then why not you ? It’s just a mind game.
The day when your mind will realize that it’s all just a bunch of false hopes, that day your feet will make a step themselves.
That day you will attain salvation from this world of false hopes, fake people, fake friendships. That day will be your new birth.
So go.
Step out.
Explore yourself.
And let them go.